And we are highly likely to face a problem or task that feels too hard.
When we chain the states and link them together, the feeling of ‘it’s too hard’ leaks into feeling
really frustrated.
And the frustration leaks into impatience, and the impatience leaks into curiosity.
Then you really start trying to answer the problem.
This will turn you into a tenacious person.
In this case the sequence is:
Frustration, Hesitation, Impatience, Curiosity, Desire
All too often when we get frustrated, someone will tell us off
and the result is that the learning just stops.
The effect of this is to connect frustration with stopping learning, rather than
leading the frustration into curiosity or desire.
When we chain the states and link them together, the feeling of ‘it’s too hard’ leaks into feeling
really frustrated.
And the frustration leaks into impatience, and the impatience leaks into curiosity.
Then you really start trying to answer the problem.
This will turn you into a tenacious person.
In this case the sequence is:
Frustration, Hesitation, Impatience, Curiosity, Desire
All too often when we get frustrated, someone will tell us off
and the result is that the learning just stops.
The effect of this is to connect frustration with stopping learning, rather than
leading the frustration into curiosity or desire.
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