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As the school year for me comes to an end, and I move on to my senior year...I've been thinking about what makes someone a friend. I guess there's basic stuff like; you have something in common with them or your personalities just "click", but then people will set up guidelines for what a friend REALLY is and what a friend ISNT (ex. "friends don't tear down other friends", "friends shouldn't be too controlling" blah blah blah yknow). I think a big thing for me that probably explains why I don't really consider the people around me to be a "real" friend, is that I've noticed how they react to me when I'm in a bad place. I've had one friend sit there and let two girls talk bad about me for DAYS and would only tell me what they said after they were done shit-talking, I had another stand there while I was being insulted by a bunch of guys, and I even had two in the same dang room let a girl talk about me, tell me what she said, and then try to instigate a fight out of the whole situation.
So I guess what I'm saying is, part of being a friend is sticking up for each other. Not only when the person is there, but when they're not around.
So I guess what I'm saying is, part of being a friend is sticking up for each other. Not only when the person is there, but when they're not around.