18+ Boy advise, Please (1 Viewer)

[Kiernil]

lmao wut. how old is his brother?

his brother is...waiittttt why the look

 

[Jewel]

his brother is...waiittttt why the look

lmao idk i was looking for one that was like a shocked wondering face

 

[Kiernil]

lmao idk i was looking for one that was like a shocked wondering face

oh ok hes 13 but dont worry he is older than his brother by maybe 6/5 years im not sure

 

[Jewel]

oh ok hes 13 but dont worry he is older than his brother by maybe 6/5 years im not sure

well if hes 13 that maybe why he sounds like a girl js

 

[Kiernil]

well if hes 13 that maybe why he sounds like a girl js

no you don't understand he sounds like a girl not like a girl nooo like a girl girl like he could be a girl but he isn't he's a male which be trippie sometimes... he is just so tiny and cute (his brother said I could call him cute so hmph)

 

[Jewel]

no you don't understand he sounds like a girl not like a girl nooo like a girl girl like he could be a girl but he isn't he's a male which be trippie sometimes... he is just so tiny and cute (his brother said I could call him cute so hmph)

wowzies ok then. is he like a femboy??? orrrr

 

[Kiernil]

wowzies ok then. is he like a femboy??? orrrr

G A Y🏳️‍🌈 haha lol he thinks it wont change in the future but as he gets older it get deeper im libra the bfs libra im bi the bfs bi we are just...cheif kiss* when were together

 

[Jewel]

G A Y🏳️‍🌈 haha lol he thinks it wont change in the future but as he gets older it get deeper im libra the bfs libra im bi the bfs bi we are just...cheif kiss* when were together

ohhhh he's gay huh. well youll see if puberty hits him like a brick or not

 

[Kiernil]

ohhhh he's gay huh. well youll see if puberty hits him like a brick or not

for some odd reason Im hoping it doesn't and on the other side im hoping it does😕

 

[RainbowDevil]

Hinestly speaking I had a girlfriend who said she'd kill herself if she didn't have me and I thought I'd be at fault but no. That's not the kind of relationship you want. Codependance doesn't work that way,y you're supposed to love the person not depend on them as if they are your entire life and nothing else mstters... trust me, we ended up breaking up after a long time and it was actually never worth it to go through with it in the first place. It's essentially blackmail... Do what you can but don't get used. Just a piece of advice.

If you meant best friend and not boyfriend... well this might not really be for that

 

[Kiernil]

Hinestly speaking I had a girlfriend who said she'd kill herself if she didn't have me and I thought I'd be at fault but no. That's not the kind of relationship you want. Codependance doesn't work that way,y you're supposed to love the person not depend on them as if they are your entire life and nothing else mstters... trust me, we ended up breaking up after a long time and it was actually never worth it to go through with it in the first place. It's essentially blackmail... Do what you can but don't get used. Just a piece of advice.

ok thank you and also your the first male on here that I've met and your pretty cool thanks

 

[bulletproof]

Hinestly speaking I had a girlfriend who said she'd kill herself if she didn't have me and I thought I'd be at fault but no. That's not the kind of relationship you want. Codependance doesn't work that way,y you're supposed to love the person not depend on them as if they are your entire life and nothing else mstters... trust me, we ended up breaking up after a long time and it was actually never worth it to go through with it in the first place. It's essentially blackmail... Do what you can but don't get used. Just a piece of advice.

If you meant best friend and not boyfriend... well this might not really be for that

100%. It's toxic... for both

 

[Kiernil]

Hinestly speaking I had a girlfriend who said she'd kill herself if she didn't have me and I thought I'd be at fault but no. That's not the kind of relationship you want. Codependance doesn't work that way,y you're supposed to love the person not depend on them as if they are your entire life and nothing else mstters... trust me, we ended up breaking up after a long time and it was actually never worth it to go through with it in the first place. It's essentially blackmail... Do what you can but don't get used. Just a piece of advice.

If you meant best friend and not boyfriend... well this might not really be for that

didn't see the last part but I did in fact mean boyfriend not best friend

 

[RainbowDevil]

ok thank you and also your the first male on here that I've met and your pretty cool thanks

No problem. Guys here are pretty cool.

And the first time around I didn't have the time to write more so I'll do it now. Going to an entirely new state is not the answer definitely, now you might love this boy unconditionally or feel like it currently but the things he does or thinks... can't be changed by just you unfortunately and seeing as running away from home might permanently scar you're family relationship and general future , stick to what you can manage. If you find a way to reach him online that's good, otherwise... just trying your hardest is the best you can do.

 

[Kiernil]

ok thank y

No problem. Guys here are pretty cool.

And the first time around I didn't have the time to write more so I'll do it now. Going to an entirely new state is not the answer definitely, now you might love this boy unconditionally or feel like it currently but the things he does or thinks... can't be changed by just you unfortunately and seeing as running away from home might permanently scar you're family relationship and general future , stick to what you can manage. If you find a way to reach him online that's good, otherwise... just trying your hardest is the best you can do.

ou sorry i didnt see it sooner trying to do something.

 

[Abeamus]

If you were able to reach him mom then i'd just ask so at least you can ease your mind knowing what happened but as for the bigger picture of the relationship however it's important that both people are not only able to enjoy time together but also able to enjoy time apart as being able to have time to yourself is still important and it's just about finding a healthy balance of spending time on your life, spending time with your partner and spending time for yourself and one thing that has stuck with me since I heard it is you cannot take care of someone else if you cannot take care of yourself.