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Appreciation Part c - Going For It (1 Viewer)

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In an attempt to understand why people do things, the field of psychotherapy
has developed many models that they later found out simply weren't the case.

However, many psychologists continue to hang on to them.
We still have people who are looking for Ids and Egos, and they're
as likely to find that as a "parent," a "child," or an "adult."
I think that most psychologists must have watched too many horror movies when they were children.

"You have a parent, an adult, and a child inside you that make you do things."
It sounds like you need to be exorcised.

People used to say, "The devil, made me do it."
Now they say, "My parts made me do it."

"Well, you're just saying this because your 'parent' is talking."
No I'm not; she's all the way back in New Jersey!"

Transactional Analysis is a device for separating behaviors
into three parts—a little like multiple personality, except TA is
supposed to be a cure.

If you're really advanced, you get to have nine parts,
because each of the first three parts has a parent,
adult, and child inside of them.

I never liked TA because only the child got to have any fun,
and only the adult could be reasonable. Everyone has to have
exactly the same parts, so there's no room for any individuality.

TA is also a segregated society: my adult can't talk to your child,
it can only talk to your adult.

Why can't my child talk to your parent? It doesn't seem fair.

But boy, can you convince people of that.

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If you do something to make people feel bad when they make sexist remarks,
that at least puts the motivation to change where it belongs—in the person whose behavior you want to change.

However, criticizing and attacking people really isn't the best way to get them to change.
The best way is to discover how they already motivate themselves, and use that.

If you ask a lot of weird questions, and if you're persistent, you can find out how
anyone does anything, including motivation.

Many people are troubled by "lack of motivation," and one example of that is
not being able to get up in the morning.

If we study those people, we can find out how not to wake up, which
could be of use to insomniacs. Everything that people can do is
useful to someone, somewhere, sometime.

But let's find out how someone wakes up easily and quickly,
without @Drug s. Who in here regularly wakes up easily in the morning?



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