Ok, so I just need to get this off my chest.
I get that this scandal is shocking and that it's left a gross taste in people's mouths, but istg the whole "We can't trust any man ever! Proof men are trash! This idol and that idol seem good but probably are like this too!!" shit pisses me off. There are humans (humans, not just men) EVERYWHERE that are shit and it's not new. But HOW do some think it's ok using horrendous scandals like this as an excuse to shit on literally half the human population as well as throw every innocent male idol under bus too, painting none of them as even being able to be good because some men are trash and disappointed them.
Yes, you can never be 100% sure with idols, just like you can't with people in real life even - how many times have we seen the "I never thought this of him, he was such a great bf"? A lot. You never know. BUT, don't act like this makes every other male idol shit too, it doesn't. There are good people. Just like some were in on it, a lot of male idols are also just as disgusted as we are. And ffs, men that we don't have a reason to believe are shitty, why just assume so low of them? I can only imagine the sadness innocent men feel when they see what disgusting things people automatically think about them, and for no reason except they've got a dick too like those monsters do.
Let's trash the scumbags but treat other males like humans and with respect ok? Just like in real life, you can burn yourself thinking someone is good when they aren't, that doesn't mean it's good to move forward in life meeting new people and automatically thinking they're just the same. Because there's a chance they're not, and they do not deserve to be treated badly by you. Just like you don't deserve to be treated badly by someone else because of their prejudices.
Don't be naive (both with public people, and irl), but don't be a dick either until you actually have a reason. There's many good people, let's believe in each other a bit ok?
I'm finally done, I had a lot of thoughts :hmm: Of course there are just some that are like this and writes this way, but it just saddened me. Thanks for listening
And in the end I just want to say I hope all those trash humans gets thrown in jail and treated like exactly what they are - trash.
I get that this scandal is shocking and that it's left a gross taste in people's mouths, but istg the whole "We can't trust any man ever! Proof men are trash! This idol and that idol seem good but probably are like this too!!" shit pisses me off. There are humans (humans, not just men) EVERYWHERE that are shit and it's not new. But HOW do some think it's ok using horrendous scandals like this as an excuse to shit on literally half the human population as well as throw every innocent male idol under bus too, painting none of them as even being able to be good because some men are trash and disappointed them.
Yes, you can never be 100% sure with idols, just like you can't with people in real life even - how many times have we seen the "I never thought this of him, he was such a great bf"? A lot. You never know. BUT, don't act like this makes every other male idol shit too, it doesn't. There are good people. Just like some were in on it, a lot of male idols are also just as disgusted as we are. And ffs, men that we don't have a reason to believe are shitty, why just assume so low of them? I can only imagine the sadness innocent men feel when they see what disgusting things people automatically think about them, and for no reason except they've got a dick too like those monsters do.
Let's trash the scumbags but treat other males like humans and with respect ok? Just like in real life, you can burn yourself thinking someone is good when they aren't, that doesn't mean it's good to move forward in life meeting new people and automatically thinking they're just the same. Because there's a chance they're not, and they do not deserve to be treated badly by you. Just like you don't deserve to be treated badly by someone else because of their prejudices.
Don't be naive (both with public people, and irl), but don't be a dick either until you actually have a reason. There's many good people, let's believe in each other a bit ok?
I'm finally done, I had a lot of thoughts :hmm: Of course there are just some that are like this and writes this way, but it just saddened me. Thanks for listening
And in the end I just want to say I hope all those trash humans gets thrown in jail and treated like exactly what they are - trash.