Discussion If You Had A 13 Year Old Daughter, Would You ...

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Be letting her go out in shit like this?





Like, my mom would've thrown away all those clothes and thrown me through a wall.
And she's 13?? I can't believe this girl has been doing stuff like this since she was like 11,
maybe 10 years old? And her mom is okay with it? Social media has really screwed this
world up ...



 

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I'm 19 and my mom would still beat my ass if I tried to wear something like that, even around the house :jisoosmh:

The scenery for wherever they are is so pretty tho
 

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I'm 19 and my mom would still beat my ass if I tried to wear something like that, even around the house :jisoosmh:

The scenery for wherever they are is so pretty tho
Same! I didn't have near half that revealing of an outfit for Prom and my parents were still side-eyeing me. And I believe they are in Hawaii?
 

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Tbh its more than social media. The Killing Us Softly series is a documentary on how advertisements have over sexualized girls and women. Its led to an increase in eating disorders and women being socialized to think its how they have to appear.

Basically, this predates social media and has just been a long time coming.
 

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Tbh its more than social media. The Killing Us Softly series is a documentary on how advertisements have over sexualized girls and women. Its led to an increase in eating disorders and women being socialized to think its how they have to appear.

Basically, this predates social media and has just been a long time coming.
I say social media because it seems a lot of the stuff this girl is into is from the Kardashians lifestyle but honestly, there are a lot of other factors when it comes to women and I agree. Society and the media have really began shaping how women look at themselves and it's sad that underage girls feel the need to over-sexualize themselves at such a young age.
 

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:jisoosmh: daaanngggg
 

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This is so disgusting and honestly just sad.
 

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Social media takes some blame....
But we live in a shitty society where girls and woman are sexualized 24/7.
Everything is a porn category nowadays.
If my hypothetical daughter wanted to dress like this idk what i'd do or say tbh.

 

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Observing real life examples, I have come to this conclusion:
- if parents are too strict, the child either becomes too timid and socially awkward OR it rebels and becomes an edgelord
- if parents are too liberal but otherwise bad at parenting, the child becomes obsessed with sexual themes, and that can manifest in many ways, OR it becomes a cynical internet philosopher who's embarrassed of their parents
- if parents are liberal but speak with their child as if it's intelligent adult, while also showing a healthy dose of affection, the child becomes a well-balanced individual with good judgement OR a Weltschmerz-feeling artist/writer/musician who appears more emo than they actually are

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This is so disgusting and honestly just sad.
I think the saddest part is watching her mom just sit there and okay everything.
 

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Bruh her boyfriend is 17 ...
 

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I think the saddest part is watching her mom just sit there and okay everything.
There was this one video of her which I won't link (as I don't actually want anyone to watch it) where she did "sexy" Halloween costumes, and that was last year. Basically she dressed up in them and made her 17 year old boyfriend say his opinion on it.
 

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There was this one video of her which I won't link (as I don't actually want anyone to watch it) where she did "sexy" Halloween costumes, and that was last year. Basically she dressed up in them and made her 17 year old boyfriend say his opinion on it.
Wow. That is honestly disgusting, I can't believe her parents would just sit there and let that happen. That girl is going to have grown mens eyes on her ... I feel bad for her for that reason but at the same time, you wonder if that even bothers her?
 

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Wow. That is honestly disgusting, I can't believe her parents would just sit there and let that happen. That girl is going to have grown mens eyes on her ... I feel bad for her for that reason but at the same time, you wonder if that even bothers her?
It probably doesn't bother her, she always talks about how she gets "hated" on when she's not doing anything wrong. She even at one point said she was the most hated person on the internet. Did you see her pregnancy scandal btw?
 

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Wtf

She was like 12 and 11 through her past ones then.
Yup. When I was that age, if my shoulders were even slightly exposed I would freak out.
 

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It probably doesn't bother her, she always talks about how she gets "hated" on when she's not doing anything wrong. She even at one point said she was the most hated person on the internet. Did you see her pregnancy scandal btw?
What?? Pregnancy scandal? Why was it a scandal, was she not really pregnant?

Man I didn't have nearly a drop of this much drama as a 13 year old.
 

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