I usually just use Crunchyroll since I don't have Netflix.Well you can always ask recs here, there is quite lot of people here who like anime :)
Also if you have Netflix nowadays lot of anime get released there as well so it can be easy and legal way to watch.
But there is so many around so I can see how it can feel intimidating. I guess it's same with new kpop fans just tons of groups and soloist around, mvs and albums to check endlessly
That's what I first thought when I was trying to figure out which anime to watch, there's so much to choose from and I can never make a decision.
I'll probably make a thread asking for recs in the future.